#44: What makes you feel abundant?

#44: What makes you feel abundant?

I’ve been thinking a lot about abundance lately. You know, that feeling of enoughness. Which is, ironically, rare in our land o’ plenty.

The abundance mindset is a powerful state of believing you have enough of whatever you need. That you will be taken care of. That you can trust the Universe and the people around you to meet your needs.

When you embrace an abundance mindset, you take risks that bring great rewards. You give to others from the bottom of the heart. You are generous and bold.

The magical part? Acting from a place of abundance actually creates abundance.
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#43: Whose permission do you need for self care?

#43: Whose permission do you need for self care?

I’ve been really sick this week. I’m not telling you this because I want sympathy. (Okay, I want sympathy. But that’s besides the point.) I’m telling you this because it took me three full days of dragging my ill body around before I gave myself permission to get in bed and be sick.

I noticed on day three of this raging cold that I was journaling yet again about how sick I was and how much work I had to do. How I didn’t have time to be sick. How I really just wanted to climb in bed with my Theraflu and Netflix.

It’s funny how we get to be adults, dishing out permission left and right to others, yet we still forget to give ourselves permission for self-care.
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#42: Who’s in your fan club?

#42: Who’s in your fan club?

I’ve been writing about community a lot lately. This is a communal time of year. Because of the holidays, we spend a lot of time with one another. Parties at home and work, social events, dinners, celebrations.

But not all company is created equal.

I’m not the first to stand in a room full of people and feel alone. Being in a room full of warm bodies and being surrounded by loving forces are not necessarily the same thing.
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#41: What if you couldn’t fail?

#41: What if you couldn’t fail?

I was in my acupuncturist’s office Friday and she had a silver paperweight on the counter that said,

“What would you try if you knew you couldn’t fail?”

I’ve heard this question before – it’s not exactly groundbreaking. But for some reason, it stuck with me on Friday. I felt like I was hearing it for the first time.

Maybe because I was finally ready to hear it.
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#40: Try something new!

#40: Try something new!

I just love spring. Everything is so NEW. Maybe it’s the thick bloom of fresh fauna bursting out into the city all around me. Determined wildflowers pushing up through cracks in the sidewalk.

Nature’s doing her thing, and it’s time to do ours. Let’s try something totally new.

Trying new things makes us grow in so many ways. It expands our sense of self, gives our brain circuits a jolt of fresh juice. Our goal for the next couple of weeks is to try something we’ve never done before.
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